Reflections on 2025
Another year down. It's easy to feel like it's been mostly stagnant - and socially it has - but it feels like I've rolled with my momentum very well to set up a successful 2026 (getting laid off next month during the restructure could change my tone on that though lol). A quick brainspill:
- * Moved inside the ATL Perimeter
- * Learned my way around the hot spots and neighborhoods (and how to get around without a car; God bless MARTA.)
- * Continued improving my endurance, as Ehlers Danlos is more than happy to continue setting me back.
- * Deepened my professional connections & relationships.
- * Close friend as new roommate
- * Re-connected with my estranged brother for the first time in 9.5 years.
- * Meaningful trips/detours to Vermont, Massachusetts, Colorado, Chicago
- * Made great memories at festivals
- * Got back into movies as a hobby
I've set some bold goals for 2026. Boldest will be trying to go three months minimum without drinking. I'm not drinking hard, but the reliance on 2-3 beers in the evening is having its effects on my energy & personal time. Living next to some quality beer halls and breweries isn't helping my taste for alcohol - mostly ciders & stouts, I left behind harder stuff after my college years.
I want to go to Canada and make a road trip. I want to go to the Northern Midwest to see Minneapolis & Milwaukee. I want to continue to see a world I previously thought impossible when I was growing up barely above the poverty line in the Carolina countryside.
I want to gain momentum with all of my hobbies and social life. Moving to a place where none of my previous friends/family reside put me back socially. I *know* what to do, I just have to get past the executive dysfunction keeping me from executing.
Barring critical health failure or being laid off, 2026 should be my year to become who I really want to be, and to escape who I currently am - a late-20s late bloomer whose life has been defined by work & health issues since high school.